No More Drama

Evening all 💕❤️

Tonights topic is all about drama and how life and people can pull you into all different situations.

It's all about how you react to a situation.

Tonight I just want to give some clear advice this is coming from someone who's always dealt with these kind tough situations.

Like most people I've had my fair share of heartache and problems some I've caused myself some have been caused by others.

Let's start with me and how I have sometimes caused my own drama.

I'm an introvert I overthink everything it can cause me to have anxiety attacks if I dwell on situations for to long.

Instead of me finding a rational explanation I will act on impulse and either do something I instantly regret.

Or say something that I haven't really thought about before saying it and then it's too late it's been said.

I'm also too honest which doesn't always work in my favour.

As I get older I'm having to change my way of thinking and how I approach situations that I feel uncomfortable about.

It still doesn't stop me shutting down and pushing others away.

That's just my stubborn behaviour.

But im learning that not every situation needs a negative response.

Sometimes not every situation needs a reaction at all.

Now let's talk about the elephant in the room.

Other people....

Let me just say this clearly whatever you do or say to someone else you need to realise that you will never be able to control their actions or response.

You can't control what they think of you it's completely up to the person in question how they perceive you.

But what you are in control of is how much emotion you invest into a situation.

We as humans will never be able to fully understand each other.

We aren't wired the same way mentally we are physically but not mentally you cannot control other people's views of you.

Some will like you and find your personality traits amazing.

Some people just get on better than other's.

It's just human nature.

Some will find you annoying egotistical possibly can't stand to be around you and everything you say will always be wrong.

You can't please everyone.

And never try to understand why people do the things they do.

If it comes from malace my best advice would be to just simply not engage it's not worth it leave them to it.

Don't walk your path with hate just simply let it go.

These are karmic lessons on not to make same mistakes twice.

But never ever let anyone stop you from progressing by dragging you into unnecessary drama. 

I have no time for it.

I've let alot go from my past I'm only ever going forward.

Remember you can't control the person or situation but you can change how you react to it.

P. S be kind, be beautiful, be you

Love to you all.

Stacie 💕❤️💕❤️💋

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No more drama Mary j bilge