Girl, you deserve better

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Hi babes! Happy Saturday, I hope you have a very enjoyable day. Today is talking about relationships, yes, I feel that I have never taken this part seriously and talked about it until I saw group chats on my social media (they always talk about relationships), I really don’t talk much or respond anything, but today I just want to share some suggestions. That is “Girl, you deserve better.”

I know that in this world, there are so many different types of people, it is really difficult to understand everyone’s favorite (such as personal things), but you know? Becoming a relationship is not just because of “likes.” Don’t get me wrong, “like” You can definitely like so many people at the same time, you will feel very happy, enjoy, relax together (but for me, I will call it “friendship” instead of “Relationship”)  Many people think about feelings. The first thing that comes to mind is that if they really like someone, they will first consider (this should be a kind of “relationship”?) and it starts, that is also easy for people to break up. The main reason? Because they still don’t understand each other’s personalities. When you find everything is wrong, this can be hurting. So this is why I want to write some suggestions for today.

1. Being together is not just about feelings. 

Well, to be honest, in our lives, who never thought about dating because of feelings? This is natural, but it turns out that at some stage, you will begin to understand that it doesn’t really make sense. Even in the beginning, neither side has any feelings. But as long as you get along for a while and get to know each other, maybe you are even more Understand what you want. Relationships are not maintained by feelings, but by for a lifetime.

2. EXPECTATIONS vs REALISTIC is complete different 

Oh, girls, who would not like to watch a romantic movie? Imagine a romantic story that may happen in real life, how beautiful? I think that everyone maybe has the experience fantasized about it? (Hey, but it’s time to wake up!) I really don’t think we can easily meet them the person in the movie, but it’s hard to say, maybe your luck is good, but not everyone. So realize that fantasy and reality are different.

3. Communication is an important key 

Communication is an important key if you really want to spend your life together. I know that some people are not good at explaining things (such as me), but if you really want to stay, you must keep open and talk, at least let him know what you think, and don’t argue after communication. Always remember “respect”

4. Learning to forgive

This will be the hard part, learning to forgive. Some people may not mention it. When they argue, they always say “Oh, I forgive you,” but perhaps deep inside, he may not. Just like I have a story, I saw a couple, they are arguing about something, the woman said, “You always say sorry, but you never change? I wonder to know how much you care about these relationships? The man said: “Does this mean that everything you said before forgives me is lying? Does that mean that you keep all the memories of the past and argue with me now? Imagine this may be really bad. (In psychology, this relationship is not happy at all.) Learning to forgive your partner is more than just a talk show, you have to prove it. That’s why I think it will It’s a tough part. We must not only say, but do more. But don’t forget that we are human beings. Each of us may have made some mistakes before or now. So take a deep breath and start learning to forgive.

5.  Be true to yourself, don’t change it for everyone. 

Sometimes when we get into a relationship, we will accidentally change our personality, perhaps because we care too much and are afraid of losing. So even if the other party has a lot of shortcomings, you have to be patient and tolerant. Girl you can’t do this! do you know? This is how domestic violence occurs. Never lose yourself by loving someone. Because you deserve better!

here is mine thought about relationships, so what do you think about relationships? no matter what kind of the relationships, I wish you have a good one and happy with your partner ?

Thank you for reading x 

Good Day,

Love, Jess x

Originally published here.