“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”
Hiya all ❤️
Late night blogging again.
I hope you're all doing OK.
Bit of a strange week im glad it's Thursday last day at work im in need of much deserved rest.
Alot of issues not many solutions but nothing that a cup of English tea won't sort out.
Oh and a bit of patience.
Which i don't have much of.
Tonight my blog post is about being an oddity.
Have you ever felt like you just don't fit in with you're own surroundings.
Or the people you connect with.
Everyone has a master plan of life.
Go to school, get a job, fall in love, get married & have babies.
Some people like normality and want to follow the two point four kids lifestyle.
But things don't always work out that way.
Even if we try to lead a normal life sometimes it can end up leaving us lost and not satisfied.
Being comfortable within your own soul and your own skin is a very beautiful feeling.
We spend decades hating our pasts, our mistakes and who we were.
But it's your past experiences that made you a better version of yourself today.
Being your authentic self in a world that's so judgemental is very tough going and it can have massive impact on your self esteem.
I used to care about what people thought about me. I let it effect my day, myself worth and it gave me serious doubts about myself.
So i tried to fit in hold back the real me.
Due to people criticising me.
But it didn't work people will still talk its human nature.
You just have to learn to understand that other people's opinions of you don't matter let them think what they need to think.
Sometimes the deep rooted issue doesn't lie with you but it lies with the person who judges you for just being you.
You have to keep being yourself and learn to....
B￼e kind to others respect your own boundaries and don't be afraid to remove people from your circle who only ever bring drama to your door and try and dull your sparkle.
If people don't want to give their time to you then honestly don't give away yours so freely.
Be unique, find your passion, follow your heart most of all never let anyone try to change you and dull your sparkle.
Love to you all ? ?
Stacie ? ? ? ❤️ ❤️ ❤️